Hints don’t work unless someone is asking for one, so you need to be clear. Don’t crush them when you tell them. No need to be stern or blunt, just polite and to the point. It’s possible to be nice when saying you’re not interested in a person. You just need to make sure the message gets across. Don’t apologize. All that does is give him a sense of hope that you’ll come around and that you have feelings of possible guilt or regret for telling him that you aren’t interested. You could also try little tricks so that they get the hint. (For example, make yourself unattractive to them so that they will leave you alone and try to hint that you don’t want to spend time with them).
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