A lot of people who learn they are being cheated on from a close family member or friend love to shoot the messenger, instead of just focusing on the message. They scream, deny or blame the person for trying to destroy their happy façade. Others are simply too embarrassed to maintain a friendship with someone that knows their family’s dirtiest secret.

So how can you mediate an affair you know about without getting caught in the middle? We recommend using a third party intermediary like The Incognito Help Line to reveal the affair.

If you’re not familiar with the service, The Incognito Help Line is an Anonymous Messaging service that will deliver any message to anyone, via email, Facebook, text/SMS, Twitter, or personally, so it will not be traced back to you.

So whether you want to send photos of an affair to a friend, or tell a family member that they need to consider a breakup or divorce, The Incognito Help Line will let them know, without ever revealing your identity.

To place an order or to find out more about The Incognito Help Line visit www.IncognitoHelpLine.com.

And remember, if it’s not so terrible to do it, it’s not so terrible to talk about it after the fact.