It’s usually better to use a third party intermediary to reveal an affair, because if you take it upon yourself to personally tell someone they are being cheated on, you’re going to get fucked. Here’s why.
A lot of people who learn they are being cheated on from a close family member or friend love to shoot the messenger, instead of just focusing on the message. They scream, deny or blame the person for trying to destroy their happy façade. Others are simply too embarrassed to maintain a friendship with someone that knows their family’s dirtiest secret.
If you’re not familiar with the service, The Incognito Help Line is an Anonymous Messaging service that will deliver any message to anyone, via email, Facebook, text/SMS, Twitter, or personally, so it will not be traced back to you.
So whether you want to send photos of an affair to a friend, or tell a family member that they need to consider a breakup or divorce, The Incognito Help Line will let them know, without ever revealing your identity.