Planning the perfect date or getaway generally involves two steps: (1) Gathering information and (2) Keeping it a secret.
First, you need to make sure your partner won’t have anything planned during that time. There are a few ways to go about securing their time without ruining the surprise. For one, you can plan something else with your mate, preferably something routine. Or, ask your mate’s relative or friend to plan something with them for that time.
When choosing your location, take into account your partner’s preferences, such as “romance of the big city” vs. “secluded in nature”. Also consider whether your partner prefers small intimate lodgings like B&Bs or cottages, or larger accommodations with lots of amenities such as hotels and resorts. You can also choose a location that’s meaningful in some way. For example, you could choose a place where you had your first kiss, or the city where you proposed, or a place your partner has always dreamed of visiting but hasn’t yet had the chance.
It is very important to have a logistic prepared before you go on a date. Keep the destination a secret until you get there. Take a circuitous route to the destination and enjoy the traveling adventure along the way. Employ blindfolds and headphones so that when you get there, your significant other get the full effect of the surprise!
So how do you keep it all a secret?
With the anonymous message inquiry service offered by The Incognito Help Line! They will call and find out some of the things they like to do and places they like to go, as well as their availability for future dates. We can ask what their best past date was, or things others have done that they enjoyed. We can also think of options in terms of affordability, so you don’t ending up sounding like a cheapskate or end up in a position of specifically asking what he or she wants only to find out you can’t afford it.