You may be in a bit of a pickle but don’t panic. We’re here to help.
Step 1: Stop sleeping with her until you’ve been tested.
Step 2: Avoid being in the same place as her when she get’s the news. Leave town or make sure she is informed when she can’t come see you immediately.
Step 3: Use The Incognito Help Line to deliver a message. Ask them to pretend we screwed up some results. Explain there was a breakout on the toilets of the places she frequents. Pretend to be an ex if you just got married. It’s up to you.
Step 4. Be there to console her. Promise not to leave, and get tested together.
At the end of the day, Many people have an STD without ever knowing it until they’ve given it to someone else who exhibit symptoms. 1 in 4 has herpes and a larger percentage will rarely if ever exhibit symptoms. People can go years living undiagnosed with HPV or HIV, and never know it. So don’t be too hard on yourself. Many times there is an explanation, so make sure they get the message instead of focusing on the messenger.