The first thing you want to avoid is jumping to conclusions based on stereotypes that lead to misplaced conclusions. While certain evidence is better than others, you really do want concrete evidence before outing someone. So no matter your reasons for speculating, you need to make sure you have actual concrete evidence before jumping the gun with gross misconceptions and misperceptions. Yet, once you have real concrete evidence (i.e. eyewitness accounts of homosexual activity by the person in question), and you’re certain about your speculations, you’ll definitely want to say something to your daughter, sister or friend. Unfortunately this is often easier said than done. What if you’re right about your son in law’s disinterest in your daughter, but wrong about his sexuality? What if you lose your daughter as a result of simply trying to do the right thing? These are all very real possibilities, but they still shouldn’t stop you from getting your point across if you’re absolutely certain. So instead of staying silent, let The Incognito Help Line relay your suspicions, so don’t have to.
If you’re not familiar with the service, The Incognito Help Line, is an anonymous message provider that will personally call and deliver any message to anyone with the promise that it will never be traced back to you. As the number one professional anonymous messaging service, The Incognito Help Line knows that sometimes its easier to let someone say things for you, (which is why The Incognito Help Line was created- for people & situations just like this). It’s one thing for someone to get a random phone call or text when they can’t validate where it comes from or if it’s meant to be taken seriously or as a joke. But when you get a personal phone call or letter from The Incognito Help Line, you know the message is serious and isn’t a joke, and it’s that personal touch that makes all the difference.
At the end of the day, people too often love to shoot the messenger instead of just listening to the message. Yet remember, things only get worse over time. So the sooner you say something, the better. Good luck!